My family and I recently moved to Patrick County. We came here for several reasons; however, I will list only two.
The first reason is that I have family in this area, and this is where I was born. I wanted to reconnect with my family and be a positive influence in their lives.
The second reason was for work purposes. I am a college graduate with a bachelor’s degree in Human Services. I am currently enrolled in a master’s degree program for professional counseling. Knowing that there is a need for many of these services in this area, I wanted to give back to the community in which I grew up.
Unfortunately, this county is no longer the place I remember from my youth. I remember families helping each other. Neighbors offering food and shelter in times of need. I remember adults caring about the children in the community. I remember families befriending each other and working together to make a better community for all.
What I have seen since I have returned has been very disheartening Drugs have run rampant. The friendliness has dissipated and been replaced with judgment and scorn. Very few will extend a helping hand to other, and children are not welcome in family settings such as restaurants.
I have been personally informed that my 2-year-old son is not welcome at one local restaurant and convenience store because he acts like a child. Of course he does; he is a child.
While many native Patrick Countians are quick to exclaim, “I don’t know what’s going on in America with all the shootings and such!,” none are taking time to examine their own intolerances and lack of empathy toward others.
These are the very same attributes that are contributing to the horror that is seen almost daily across the United States. Though it hurts to see what my hometown has become, I will continue to be available as a helper to all those I meet. I ask that others consider joining me to work toward restoring the community fellowship that we all once enjoyed.
