By Carl T. Taylor, President\r\nChurch of Jesus Christ\r\nof Latter-day Saints\r\nI would like to share some thoughts that I have found in my study on the subject of charity.\r\nToo often, charity is extended to another when his actions or conduct are acceptable to us. The exhibition of charity to another must not be dependent on his performance. It should be given because of who we are\u2014not because of how we behave.\r\nIt is not for us to judge those who might be confused or who have not the strength to change. What they need is our understanding and support.\r\nNever assume that you can make it alone. You need the help of the Lord. Never hesitate to get on your knees in some private place and speak with Him.\r\nOur words, like our deeds, should be filled with faith and hope and charity, the three great Christian imperatives so desperately needed in the world today. With such words, spoken under the influence of the Spirit, tears can be dried, hearts can be healed, lives can be elevated, hope can return, confidence can prevail. ...May we all rejoice in the thought that when we say edifying, encouraging things unto the least of these, our brethren and sisters and little ones, we say it unto God.\r\nParents of handicapped children are occasionally embarrassed or hurt by others who awkwardly express sympathy but cannot know or appreciate the depth of the parents\u2019 love for a handicapped child. Perhaps there is some comparison in the fact that there is no less love in families for the helpless infant who must be fed, bathed, and diapered than for the older but still dependent members. We love those we serve and who need us.\r\nAs we study the scriptures, we notice that the Savior ministered to people according to their specific needs.\r\nJesus showed patience and love to all who came to Him seeking relief for their physical, emotional, or spiritual illnesses and who felt discouraged and downtrodden.\r\nTo follow the Savior\u2019s example, each one of us must look around and reach out to the sheep who are facing the same circumstances and lift them up and encourage them to proceed on the journey towards eternal life.\r\nAlong your pathway of life you will observe that you are not the only traveler. There are others who need your help. There are feet to steady, hands to grasp, minds to encourage, hearts to inspire, and souls to save.\r\nAs you increase in innocence and virtue, as you increase in goodness, let your hearts expand, let them be enlarged towards others; you must be long-suffering, and bear with the faults and errors of mankind.\r\nHow precious are the souls of men!\r\nLove is one of the chief characteristics of Deity, and ought to be manifested by those who aspire to be the sons of God. A man filled with the love of God, is not content with blessing his family alone, but ranges through the whole world, anxious to bless the whole human race.\r\nIs it not possible to look beyond the canes, the wheelchairs, the braces, and the crutches into the hearts of the people who have need of these aids? They are human beings and want only to be treated as ordinary people.\r\nThey may appear different, move awkwardly, and speak haltingly, but they have the same feelings. \u2026They want to be loved for what they are inside, without any prejudice for their impairment. Can there not be more tolerance for differences\u2014differences in capacity, differences in body and in mind?